I believe the BCP is a wonderful program that opened my eyes to issues and problems I had been denying for years. It benefited my recovery because I now know my relationship with my wife was heading towards a disasterous end. I feel this program has stopped that course and given us the tools for recovery and comunication that will last a lifetime.
Victimization studies suggest that anywhere from 12-28 % of all women and 3-16% of men are subjected to some form of sexual abuse in their childhood (When The Victim Is A Child, National Institute Of Justice, Office Of Justice Programs, 1992). Most perpetrators of sexual abuse are family members or trusted friends of the family.
Perpetrators of sexual abuse can be both male and female, mothers and fathers, aunts or uncles. Sexual abuse causes children to develop a range of significant problems including difficulty with body image, anxiety, panic attacks, depression, and suicidal thinking or attempts. They have difficultly with relationships and sexuality. They may be sexually phobic or overly seductive and advanced in their behavior for their age. They may excessively daydream and appear not to be “present”.
These effects carry into adolescence and adulthood, leaving the victims of sexual abuse struggling in relationships, abusing alcohol and drugs, and/or engaging in other compulsive behaviors including sex and food. In one study (Carnes), 81% of individuals recovering from sexual addiction had been sexually abused as children. With treatment and supportive and validating therapeutic services, victims of abuse can heal and learn to lead more productive and fulfilling lives.